Sometimes we might get angered by our parents until we lose the sense of respect we have for them. But never let this force take advantage of you and utter painful words to your parents; always learn how to control your anger whenever it associates you with your parents.

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Here are 3 words I advise you to never utter in front of any or both of your parents;

1. "You don't love me"

A parent has to love his/her child or children and it is a natural feeling. It never comes just because you have done something good to them; it comes alone. Therefore, there is no point in allowing anger to make you tell mum or dad they don't love you, they actually do. 

For your information, they do get hurt when they hear such words from you because you don't you appreciate them for what they have been doing for you to be how an where you are.

2. "I wish you were not there"

What does this mean in a nutshell? This means you wish they were dead and even as they live, you don't see any reason they should be alive. 

This statement might pose a very bad curse on you that only them can save you from. 

No matter how angered you feel by them, just let them know you don't wish bad for them because it pains when their own child can wish them so.

3. "You have no importance in my life"

They are useless and even if they were dead when you were still young you'd still be where you are. It is very much wrong to tell your parents such words. They brought you up to where you are now and trust me it isn't an easy job. That alone makes them so important even if they fund you no more but they are as important as the air you breathe. Let not anger make you forget that you must respect and value your parents.