Conflicts and disagreements are normal in any relationship. This can lead to domestic violence breaking up the relationship. However, some of these partners get back together after the fight.
This is because:
1. You think you will solve what led to the abuse
After a conflict, the parties can get depressed, frustrated and desire to get forgiveness. To help the other party overcome these feeling will make you go back to console with them because you have feelings for them and don't wish to spend your life without them.
2. Taking care of children
Most partners prefer to bring up their children with two parents. They wish their children to have access to good clothing, good education, parental care and access to other social needs. This makes the partners back together
3. Fear on what will happen tomorrow
Most abuse victims find their way back to these relationships because they are fearing what will happen next. Could the partner stalk them, look for them and cause harm? How will the future tend to be for being a single parent or will you cope to live a life without your partner?
4. Low self-esteem
People choose to go back to an abusive relationship because they think they will never get any other partner as good as their abusive partners.