It is kind of peculiar how relationships end these days.
You are cuddling today, and then tomorrow, they see a flaw in you and decide you are not suited for them anymore.
It happens, almost on a daily basis.
For many reasons, a partner may identify an alarmingly critical flaw in the other and decide to walk away despite them being perfect in all 'other areas'.
As shocking as the break up may seem, within days or weeks upfront, you will realise that they are moving back together and seeing each other in the name of being 'just friends'.
This is a myth, in totality, created by former lovers who feel they did not accomplish something during their time together.
It does not exist and can never be right.
Here is why you can never be 'just friends' with someone you once loved:
1. They know you too well
When in love, you get to open up way too much, and most of what makes you is spread out and read like a book.
From your emotional weaknesses to your deeply concealed self, your lover gets to understand you inside out, quite literally.
Well, a friend may or may not know you that well but a lover goes that extra mile.
As such, a 'friend' of the opposite sex who knows you this much is unheard of.
2. Difficult to reverse all you had
The memories, the crazy stuff you used to do together and the petty fights you had.
How are you going to reverse all this and start at the very basic level of friends?
It is definitely not possible, and you should never cheat yourself that it is.
No matter how long it has been since you broke up, it all defies logic.
Moments of passion and emotional attachment are deeply embedded in the brain. They can't be undone.
3. Seeing each other move on would hurt
When you are 'just friends,' it will essentially mean that they can move on.
Them moving on with someone other than you is going to hurt, especially when you think of the good days you had together.
The thought of them creating memories which could be a replica of what you had, would be hard to take down.
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