Arguments are common in most relationships. The way you deal with arguments is what matters. There are some things that can ruin your love life if said during fights with bae. These things should be avoided at all costs. Elitedaily.com has outlined 5 of these things to avoid when engaging in an argument with your better half.
1. Comparing your partner to your exes
He or she is different from your exes. Respect the fact that you left them for her or him. Your partner will always be better than the people you once dated in the past.
2. Ultimatums
Do not give your partner ultimatums. He or she might have hurt you but threats won’t solve the matter. Threatening him or her will make them think twice about the affair.
3. Target attacks
Do not target him or her in your insults. Face the problem at hand. Many at times we deviate from the real subject because we want to prove something when fighting over love.
4. Emotional diagnosis
Never take advantage of your partner's mental issues to justify yourself during arguments. There some of us who end up questioning the emotional stability of our partners whenever we quarrel. Understand that you are not doing right.
5. Blaming him or her for everything
He or she might have wronged you but your partner is not always doing bad things. Do not make him appear the most useless person you have ever met in life. Your partner deserves respect even when you are fighting.