Women are little flowers that may wither off when rubbed even with the slightest force. A man should mind the words he speaks to his wife especially during arguments because words often mean a lot to them.
A women's sense of interpreting words is somehow different from that of a man. To ensure you don't dig holes on your woman's heart, here are some of the things and words you should avoid;
1. Shh! Calm down!
Women hate being shushed when they speak; trying to shut a woman when she is explaining her own side of the argument will only hurt her. As a man don't dominate an argument by shutting your woman whenever she speaks just so that you emerge the best.
Many women take 'calm down' or 'cool down' as a way men use to ensure they are superior. When she is explaining her own side just let her do.
2. Are you on your periods?
Periods and mood swings in women are almost the same thing. She might be either too talkative and full of rage to argue or she might choose to stay quiet even as you talk to her.
The big mistake you shouldn't make is asking her if she is on her periods. The best thing you can do when she is on her menstrual cycle is shown compassion and support and she will definitely love you for that.
2. The silent treatment
For men, this is the best medicine for women who argue a lot. 'Silence is the best weapon'. But is this really good for her? Well, she will interpret this as some sort of immaturity or you are fed up with the relationship.
Doing this will only make her feel hurt and her love for you will diminish with time.
Learn to handle women.