Many lovers are blindly mistreated and made to undergo a torrid time by their partners with no sign of that ever ending. 

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However, just because they once promised to love you forever, you think all will come to cool down and that you will have your love back and be good again.

That wait just rumbles on and you sometimes feel like giving up or calling time on your relationship but then you ask yourself, 'where will I go?'

A man may choose to mistreat you to make you leave if he has a 'better' replacement but can't just gather enough courage to tell you it's over. But what are the signs that you are just that other girl he doesn't want? Well, here are three top signs.

1. You simultaneously feel worth it and worthless

He is putting you under a thick cloud and you are faced with a lot of uncertainties. If he doesn't love me, why is he not saying it? You feel worthless that he is kind of slowly walking away while you also feel worth it that he chose you in the first place.

2. You realize nothing is going to come true

He promised you the world but as things stand, he won't even allow you to have a mere village. There is something wrong but he doesn't want to talk about it and does not want you to dwell on wanting to know.

Everything seems to be going south yet he encourages you to believe everything is fine. How dumb of you to believe that?

3. Emotional manipulation

He uses every available loophole and what he knows of your weakness to emotionally manipulate you and bend you to his will, quite literally. He even threatens to walk away if you dare 'complain too much.' It is all just because he can't pronounce the phrase, 'it won't work?'

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