It was the model relationship – your friends envied you. A countless number of strangers often got the time of their busy schedules to like the photos you posted online, others commenting how cute a couple you were.
Then, without warning, the sky started caving in.
The relationship is over. The pain is unbearable. At that moment you are thinking that you can bear a thousand spears and a little more on your back than endure the impalpable pain tearing you apart.
But you ask yourself how could it have gone wrong? Are you not beautiful enough? Why would he choose another girl?
As you nurse your broken heart, waiting for him to say that he is sorry, that he didn’t mean it; you can’t help but blame him for not seeing the purity of the love you gave him.
At that point, you are going through the pictures you took together, the memories forever lodged in your mind, and you are thinking that he will never find a better girl than you.
But in all the pain and angst, it does not occur to you that he could be thinking to himself; good riddance! Instead, you focus on how good you were to him, and even hating him even more.
Beneath all these, your carry the pain of having loved truly and lost terribly. You carry the scars of heartbreak everywhere. It’s upon you to take responsibility for your life and all that has happened and fix yourself up.
Nobody will fix your broken heart except you. It won’t help either if all you tell your next boyfriend is how your ex-lover broke your heart.
He is not a therapist or a counselor. He is there to love you, and does not care about your past.
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