Pregnancy is a state when a woman appears complicated and every little thing you think won't hurt her actually does. She is sensitive at this time and the conclusions she makes out of your words would damage the connection between the two of you. 

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Here some of the things you should never say to a pregnant woman;

1. "I regret"

A man will always think pregnancy is a thing for just women to deal with; he forgets that this is a period when she needs him even more. 

And now because of the cries, the moods, the many needs she has, he starts to regret making her pregnant and he goes to an extent of telling her this on her face. 

You will break her heart, so never say this to your pregnant wife.

2. "You eating again?"

Her appetite is high and she tends to eat a lot but you don't have to question her too much eating. 

Remember a baby is growing inside her and so she needs to eat enough so that the baby can get its food too. 

3. "This pregnancy is hard on me"

Well, it's hard on you but how hard do you think it's hard on her who carries the baby. 

As a man, before you say this to your pregnant wife, ask yourself how she feels having that beautiful load on her belly not forgetting how long it will take. It is never hard on you as it is on her. 

4. "Why didn't you do this and that?"

You come back home and find the house a little messy. You start complaining and shouting at her demanding to know why everything is not how they used to be before the pregnancy. 

Before you say a word, walk yourself to where you think is wrong and make everything right. She experiences fatigue and helping her will make her happy. 

5. "You are becoming miserable"

You had her when she wasn't pregnant and she was beautiful and sweet every moment you set your eyes on her. 

Now she has gained weight and she has swollen ankles and looks weary. All you see is a different person who less attracts you. 

Telling her she looks miserable will literally break her heart because you don't appreciate her for what she is going through because of you. 

Whenever your wife is expectant the best thing to tell her is; "You look beautiful and am proud of you".

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