Being in love is such a fantastic thing. You get to enjoy the affection and more importantly be with someone who absolutely cares for you. However, all the love and the affection can sometimes be damaging to you and all you stand for. In the quest to experience the thrills of love and passion, you may venture so deep into the badlands and totally forget your world. When it hits you, you will be so far gone.
In the event that you are actually putting your own world and dignity at stake because of love, you will need to take a step back and rebrand. Well, here is why you should consider abandoning love for some time.
1. They are suffocating you and you haven't talked about it.
Your lover may actually be suffocating you. They could be after every tiny thing you stand for yet just because you are afraid of talking about it for the fear of losing them, you pretend to be okay. Come on! You are going to be killed in there! Take a step back and think about who you are. Be selfish even for a day and it shall work wonders.
2. You're abandoning everything for their sake
As important as it is to maintain your relationship, you should also, in the same way, maintain your world outside of the relationship. Whatever decision you choose in a relationship, always consider the chance of being wrong. You can't just abandon everything for someone you have known for a couple of months or even years because they seem like a good deal. They may also have other ideas and could leave at will.
3. You're on your own
A relationship between two people has to be shared, everything should be shared in half. Being in a one-sided relationship will only hurt you. It will never be easy and you may accumulate unnecessary health complications for yourself just because you feel it will work, somehow. Just step back and watch for a moment and you will realise how wrong you are.
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