While to many it's a notion that women often have several unrealistic expectations of men, men too have several and seriously unrealistic expectations of women and for them, a woman should always fulfil these expectations failure to which they term this 'disrespect'.
Some men will expect their women to;
1. Always be there for them
Some type of men will always expect their women to always be there for them; give them full time despite the current world where everyone wants to be independent.
She will need to do her stuff and get her money but some men are against this and all they need is their time; they will provide the rest.
2. Obey everything they say (control them)
What hurts a woman is being controlled and commanded. However, some men don't understand this. They control women as they want and expect them to cope with that.
Not everything a man wants or says is well with a woman and men have to learn this; don't force her to obey everything you say.
3. Respect them even if themselves don't
Respect is a mutual factor. In the world of today, you only respect who respects you because respect is earned and not gained.
However, today, a man will expect a woman to respect him for 'being a man'' when himself he has not even a little respect for her. This isn't right at all and such men need to change.
4. Always stick to them
Some men also believe that once he gets a woman, she should stick to him forever even if the condition in the relationship is chocking.
This is severely unrealistic and modern and mature women would never do this. She only sticks to you when you treat her right and make her feel comfortable.