Every relationship has its ups and downs. Before things, crumble you may have seen or not seen the signs.
There's no greater bother than an insecure partner who is constantly on your neck accusing you of things that are only on his head.
Here are signs that your partner is insecure:
1. Constantly going through your phone
Every time you put your phone down, your insecure partner dashes and goes through your phone.
He or she will question every suspicious contact in your phone book.
If you get late, you must give satisfactory explanations backed by evidence and witnesses to convince him you were not cheating on him.
2. Threatening to leave you
Insecure people tend to constantly threaten to leave the relationship every time you have an argument.
They will be trying to measure how much you care for the relationship by calling it off every now and then.
3. Ask for reassurance every now and then
'Do you love me?' will be your breakfast, lunch and supper questions. They will feel insecure to an extent that they would expect you to initiate conversations and calls. Failure to which, you will be in hot soup.
4. Question your opposite gender friends
They will notice that man who looks at you lustfully, that lady who brings you food at work or that one who sells you drinks at the bar and claim you got a relationship with them.
They will even go to an extent of fighting the people who seem to be interested in you despite you not noticing.
In a situation where your partner is insecure, there's a need for action to either cut off everything making him/her insecure or leave the relationship.
This is because many domestic violences that turn out fatal started as cases of insecurity in the relationship.
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