When choosing your partner, there is a lot that you should take into serious consideration. There are certain breeds of men that you need to avoid at all costs.
Avoiding them is insurance against heartbreaks and all the dirty stuff that you may have to go through when they are at your side.
Many of them may be masters of hiding their true self for a very long time, long enough to ensure that they have your heart set on loving them.
But as soon as you see their true colours, you should be able to make a decision on if or not you should continue being with them. Below are the characters you should not entertain in your life.
1. Laziness
It doesn't take any special instinct to know that someone is lazy.
These are the kind that will be texting you all day saying how a certain movie is interesting to them or why you should listen to a certain song. Their day is probably from the bed to the couch with meal breaks in between.
How will such a man even take care of himself let alone taking care of the family and you?
2. The emotionally manipulative
There is another breed that will always struggle to find your weak point and then use it as a weapon against you.
They will exploit your emotional weakness once they realise you are not so good at handling emotional instances. Be on the lookout for such characters in your partner.
3. The 'needy'
These type of men are always after something from you. In other words, they are always lacking something.
4. The 'men babies'
These type of men may be as a result of circumstances. There upbringing may have been problematic. They will always be petty about everything and sometimes too emotional. They will see you hug another guy and call you later to literally cry about it.
5. Aren't over their ex
If you plan to date someone who is clearly not over his ex, it is hell you are walking into. These type of men will always tell you how good their ex-was and how they will be happy if she came back.
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