Since proper security starts with yourself, there is a need for every lady to prepare to protect herself from guys who might turn again them on a date.
Cases of ladies getting raped might not all be reported, but they do happen in this society. It is therefore good that ladies anticipate of such when going out with him. Will manage to handle him when he shows off his other motive? Or will you just wait and see it happen?
The following are tips that every woman should employ when going on a date with no safety guarantee;
1. Have a pepper spray with you
Just but a quick reminder, when Nairobi County Speaker was being roughed up by MCAs, we all heard one of the members saying 'mapiripiri kwa macho'. Pepper spray can be a good escape route, reach your handbag and direct the nozzle of the spray into his eyes. This will give you time to run.
2. Be alert on any drug substances
This will help you to avoid getting drugged before he gains access to your body parts. Do not trust him so much.
3. Scream
If you get a chance to make some noises, ensure you're very loud so by luck, passers-by can hear your screams and come for your aid.
Also avoid lonely spots, travelling for long until you get so exhausted that you cannot fight him back.