When people love, it is because they find a desirable trait in the prospective partner. However, you may sometimes make the very wrong love decisions and end up suffering inwardly. People can fake that they are a good stay that way just long enough to lure you and make you theirs.
If you love him, you better evaluate your reasons and find the very concrete reasons to stay or hold on in that state.Here are some of the reasons you may be clinging onto him yet he is not really what you should have.1. Attracted to his physiqueBeing attracted to his physique is no reason whatsoever to have someone around you. What if he kind of fades along the way? Will you stop loving him? Just because you love how he cuddles you and cups your head with those strong arms does not mean he is all that you need. It could just be an illusion in your head preventing you from thinking straight.2. You have misunderstandings but you never fully make upWhenever you have misunderstandings, it is best that you fully make up and decide to move on as one. If he always comes back without any attempt to solve previous puzzles or misunderstandings, then, trust me, that is not where you should be.3. He receives messages from other ladies in your presence and doesn't careIf he is always on the phone chatting with other ladies while you are there and is not bothered, you need to really exploit the possibility of walking away. He may sometimes let you see the messages and tell you not to worry about them. Well, you should really be worried.4. You're always hoping he gets betterIf your man shows no sign of being the emblem of who you want, just walk away and look for what you want. Do not stress yourself over someone in the hope that things will one day get better. If he lacks the qualities you want; then, he has no business wasting your time.5. Openly flirts with other girlsIt is not bad to compliment one or two girls as you stroll around or in your day to day endeavours. If he over does it and does not care about your presence, you may really not be that important to him. It could also be true that your feelings do not matter.