Some ladies who are in a relationship might be serious with the guy she has but many a time men might be joking with her in the name of saying "second choice" and these usually break the heart of many ladies and end up losing interest to men.
But for ladies you should not conclude that all men are of that kind, here is what will help you know if you are his side chick rather being his number one and you can do away with this kind of men.
1. He cancels plans all the time.
If a guy really likes you, he will prioritize you. Even for his big schedule if he really wants to meet you he will adjust.
2. He doesn’t spend money on you.
When a guy really wants to pursue a girl he will lavish her with gifts and will do anything possible to show her that he is caring. If he’s too broke to buy you something he will let you know.
3. When you two first started dating, his attention was less.
Most of the time, a guy can figure out when he wants to be with someone after the first or second date. If the beginning of the relationship was marked with you making more effort than him, then him suddenly becoming very interested in you later, this is a bad sign.
4. You haven’t met his friends or his family, and it’s been a while.
A guy who truly loves you will always be proud of you and will always introduce you to his friends and family, it doesn't mean he is not the one you should date.
5. Things he’s doing with you are done at his convenience, not yours.
If your relationship is one that has him coming and going at his convenience, you’re his backup plan.