Be careful not to be lustfully connected to a man, thinking that you are in love. When a lady enters a relationship, she can mistake it for love and especially when these new feelings only seem to be spent in bed most of the time. So how can you differentiate between lust and love?
1. When you try to imagine, you can’t see any future together at all
Lust only lasts for a few moments when you feel amazing throughout this period but on the other hand, your mind clearly tells you that you can’t be together for a lifetime. Again, you tell yourself that you can’t take this type of person to visit your family.
2. You ignore the most important and emotional details about him
You do not know many facts about this guy you are “dating” like his favourite colour, his visions, his middle name, his birthday, his favourite drink, trivial details about each other and so on. One of the foundations of a relationship is knowing these silly but small details about each other.
3. You spend the whole day in bed and hardly go out
Seriously? A relationship is not just about sex. You can go out, watch movies, visit a park near your home (if you haven’t gone there yet) and so on. You can even go to shopping malls and other places to play games, ride horses and so on. But if you spend most of your time in bed just making love, my sister, that is not love, it is lust.
4. Your SMS, Whatsapp conversations are only about sex
If you are getting texts like “I want you again like last night” and not “good morning baby”, then there is a problem.
5. You only feel like you want to have sex with him and always feel frisky
That is pure lust. A relationship should make you feel happy, have emotions, feel like you want to know each other, have plans together, go out. When you only feel frisky, that is not love but lust!