How much you love them does not really have to be determined by how much you are willing to yield to all that they want.
You need to have some power, in your own capacity, that makes you some kind of a pillar in the relationship. Being psycho-emotionally weak will make you, among other things, weak and ultimately placid to all that happens.
Being vulnerable is something that comes from your own self. Here are the things that will make you vulnerable in a relationship:
1. Emotional dependence
Suppressing your emotions may prove such a tall order and, as such, you will seek out your partner to probably lessen the burden.
The only disadvantage with this is that with time, you will come to be fully dependent on them in the emotional aspect and they will almost know how to break and make you.
2. Being too open
Much as it is good to be open to your partner, it is just as important to not reveal every bit of information to them.
They are not entitled to all that is characteristic of you. If they know you too well, they will be able to use your weaknesses against you and emotionally manipulate you with what they know.
3. The fear factor
In a relationship, anything can happen. You do not need to be so careful and cautious with everything that happens. If they are meant to be, they will be and if not, you sadly have to accept the fact and move on.
Fearing that you will somehow lose them will make you do crazy stuff just in the name of proving to be the best there is. It will then, be like giving yourself to them.
4. You accommodate everything
There are some things you need to abandon. If you find that all that they come up with is good for you, just because it seems great for them, you are, sadly trading your dignity for someone's love which may even not be eternal.
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