Approaching a beautiful woman is often a daunting task for men.

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Men including those in Nairobi are generally fearful and will take ages before they get the guts to approach a beautiful woman.

Nairobi men fear approaching single beautiful women because of their class that is characterised with the issue of 'sponsors'.

Monica Mungai, a relationship expert observes that men fear being rejected by beautiful women.

She however says that approaching a beautiful woman should be the simplest thing for any man.

Here are tips on how to approach a beautiful single woman.

1. Be confident

Beautiful women detest men who are not confident. 

When approaching her, do it with confidence and respect.

Mungai says that women believe and trust men who show and speak in confidence.

2. Wear nicely/decently 

Women love men who know how to take care of themselves in terms of dressing. 

Mungai says that women are put off by men who don’t know how to dress.

“Presentation in terms of dressing is everything and once you fail on these,  forget about winning a woman's heart,” she said.

Mungai notes that the dressing does not have to be expensive for one to stand out.

3. Avoid sexual compliments on first meeting 

Mungai says that is not wise for a man to compliment a woman on the first time they meet. 

She says that such a thing amounts to disrespect.

“A woman will feel offended when you bump into her and complement her with things like ‘you have a nice figure’, or ‘you are sexy’, or ‘can I have your number’.

She says a man should take time to know the woman, what she likes and how she likes it before complimenting her.

Some women detest compliments and often see them as an embarrassment.

4. Open up to her

While approaching her for the first time, introduce yourself politely, talk to her politely and she will give you her ear.

Mungai however warns that you should not talk too much rather than revealing little by little as you also give her time to speak.

5. Ask for her number politely 

Don’t demand for her phone number. 

 Women detest men who demand their contacts.

If she agrees to give out her number, thank her and promise to get in touch.

Mungai observes that many men fail to win the hearts of their dream women because of simple mistakes.

All the best as you seek to approach the woman of your dreams.

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