Finding the right partner in life is never easy. 

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Many people have ended up in unhappy marriages because of rushing into affairs. 

It is good to take your time so that you understand the man or woman you want to get married to. 

Here are five signs you are married to the wrong person:

1. He/she is ever putting you down

A husband or wife should be a source of inspiration to his or her partner. 

You need someone who encourages you. 

You need someone who gives you reasons to fight on when life gets tougher. 

2. He/she isn't loyal

You need a loyal partner. 

A partner who will always be there for you when you need him or her. 

You do not need someone who is likely to leave you when life becomes tough. 

A loving partner will be there for you through good and tough times.

3. He/she is abusive

One of the gravest mistakes you can make is marrying an abusive partner.

Persons in abusive marriages are never happy. 

You deserve something better than a man or woman who beats you up. 

If he or she has become violent, then you are in a wrong relationship.

4. He/she never has time for you

A good partner creates time to be with you. 

It is evident you married the wrong person if he or she is ever too busy for you. 

You need to spend time together with your partner if you want to make your marriage stronger.

5. He/she has a dangerous addiction

Many marriages collapse because of addictions. 

Drugs and betting are among the addictions that could ruin your love life. 

Learn to deal with these addictions if you want to change your marriage.#MyLifestyle