Nowadays, ladies out there find it perfectly normal to become baby mamas. To some, it happens intentionally while to others unintentionally.
However, there is that downside bit that comes along with being one. Read on to find out;
Chances are you might end up being a single parent
We all know single parenthood is not a walk in the park. You have to play both parents, which is not an easy task. You will be busy hustling, working two times harder, so that you can be able to fend for your kids and ensure they live a comfortable life.
This requires a lot of hard work and sacrifice, so don't risk it.
You kids might end up asking you endless questions
Some kids end up asking why they don't have fathers yet their friends do. They will ask you questions that you might find it difficult or embarrassing to answer because you don't know how to go about it.
It isn't good for your kids' future lives
You're your children's role model, so chances are your daughters might end up following your footsteps and end up being 'baby mama's' as well. This is probably because they do not know how to leave with a guy since they didn't have that dad experience in their lives.
Your sons, on the other hand, will suffer the consequences of not having their dads in their lives, yet a father-son relationship is crucial for them.
You might not find a husband in future
Though not all, guys nowadays are scared of dating or marrying women who already have children because they're scared of the extra baggage. So don't risk it.
You're better than that
As a woman, you're not just a baby making machine. You're more valuable than that. So, find yourself a guy who will appreciate you and who will be happy to play a father's role in case you get kids. Run away from deadbeats.
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