There are times women use men for attention. You might think she loves you only to realise she doesn’t. Determining whether a woman is real or just faking her affection for selfish gain can be tough for most men. Love Devani outlines five signs she’s using you for attention.

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1. She rarely replies to your texts, but she’s all over you on social media

Some women are strange. You will find that she keeps commenting on your social media posts but she does not reply to your messages. It is clear she only wants to get attention.

2. She keeps taking selfies with you

A woman who only wants to use you will not stop taking selfies with you. She will post the selfies on her social media account. She will always tag her friends in the photos.

3.  She’s self-centered

Self-centeredness is a sign of being used. Love is care. Someone who loves you will not be egocentric.

4. She’s acts immaturely

Immaturity is a sign of being used. Her acts do not reflect someone you can spend the rest of your life with. A woman will act immaturely if she does not fear to lose you.

5. She tries to make those around her jealous

When a woman is using you, she tries to make the people around her jealous.  She will do everything so that the people around can notice you are with her. She will not care about what others think about her actions as long as she gets their attention.