A relationship is hard to start and maintain. However, there are many things you can do to last in a relationship forever. One most important thing to do is communicate. Many people who fail to communicate have always ended up in exploitive relationships. Some men have turned their women into their mothers. Their women are doing things they are not supposed to.

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Here are four ways he has turned you into his mother:

Always clean after himMen have turned their girlfriends into their cleaning machines. He is using you the wrong way if you are always cleaning for him. If he always calls you to go and clean his house and keep things in order, you are more than his girlfriend, he has turned you into his mother, and you are still nurturing him.

Make excuses for himA real man should always own up his deeds. However, if you are the one to always protect and cover for his mistakes, then he has made you his mother. Such men are using you for no good reason. Let him take up his doing so that he won’t repeat them again.

Take care of him when sickA man and his girlfriend have two different lives. However, if you have to stop your life to take care of him when he is sick, then he has taken you to be his mother. Checking on him isn’t a problem, but when he wants you there doing everything for him, it becomes an issue. 

You responsible for himYour boyfriend is not your child or your husband. You cannot be responsible for him when he is old enough to take care of himself. Ladies who have been reduced to maids for such grown men are in trouble. You are like his mother and he is a child to you.