Online dating, also known as internet dating, is common nowadays with the majority of young people using it to connect and find love.
The internet has made it easier for lovers to connect and share experiences.
In Kenya, there exist thousands of online dating sites that have made it easier for people to find their love.
In Machakos, young people have not been left behind as many use the internet to search for love.
The youth say that internet dating is easier, convenient and saves time.
“I personally met and married my wife through the internet and it was just easy for me,” Mlolongo resident, Samson Mbaluku says.
According to Peninah Malonzo, a relationship expert, internet dating has simplified love and relationships.
The expert, however, notes that internet dating can become a problem if the people involved are not careful.
According to Malonzo, here are the five rules one must keep in mind when searching for love on the internet.
1. Don’t use your real names
It is not wise to reveal your full identify when dating online for the first time.
Love experts say that revealing your full identity can be dangerous since not all people on the internet have good motives.
It is advisable to use a pseudo name and only reveal your real identity when you get connected to someone you think you can match.
2. Don’t expose too much too soon
It is advisable not to share a lot of your information the first time when dating online.
Share your information bit by bit until you are satisfied that no one can use it to harm you.
It is also not wise to share your private information like phone number, your address, place of work, the car you drive and private information.
3. Be real
It is advisable to be real in what you are looking for.
Don’t fake what you like and love in order to get someone.
When dating online always reveal the truth about yourself.
4. Share your phone number only when you are ready
Don’t rush to share your phone number, email address, your place of work or home.
It is only advisable to share it when you have made contact with the person on the other side of the internet.
Remember not everyone on online dating sites is genuine.
5. Let someone know when you decide to meet the other person.
When you agree on the first date, it is advisable to let anyone else know about it.
You can tell him or her about where you plan to meet with your found partner.
This is necessary and important for your security.
6. Set your standards and limits ahead of time
It is necessary to decide in advance what you expect and don’t expect before venturing into online dating.
Always visualize the type of person you are looking for and what happens in case you fail to meet your expectations.
All the best as you look for love on the internet.
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