It surprises me to see guys being in several relationships at once when some of us cannot sustain a single relationship beyond two weeks. 

Is there a story unfolding in your community? Let Hivisasa know

This scenario got me to find out how do they do it?

“Safety” of the mobile phone

It is understood that the mobile phone is a source of many wrangles in relationships. 

However, I once engaged in a conversation with a friend of mine who despite girls knowing that he is a “player”, they never seem to get enough of him. 

He said that he ensures that the girl does not get to the phone, the phone is kept away and its protected with complex passwords and or patterns so as to keep any suspicions away.

So even if she doubts that something is going on, she does not have proof and without proof, there is no risk at all.

Being at the right place at the right time

I sought to find out the meaning of this statement and he said that one day he told his girlfriend that he was tired and he was heading home, however, he had other plans and did not head home. The girl felt suspicious and she followed him to his house only to find the door locked, that’s when hell broke loose and he decided that every time he says he’s going somewhere, that’s where he will be.

“No show offs”These guys who lie will pretend like they are single.

 They will never post any of their relationship status anywhere, not on WhatsApp status not even on Facebook. 

Their relationship life is ever private and people will think that they are single when they are really multi-dating.

#hivisasaoriginal