After viral cheating claims involving singer Peter Okoye of Nigeria's P-Square over Zari Hassan that elicited mixed reactions from Kenyans a few months ago, his wife has finally responded on how she handles rumours and the pressures it brings in relationships and marriages.
Tanzanian singer Diamond Platnumz earlier this year sensationally accused her baby mama, Zari Hassan, of cheating on him with Peter Okoye alias Mr P
While both Zari and Mr P refuted the allegations, Mr P's wife, Lola, did not speak about the whole thing.
However, since fans kept on asking her about how she handles such negativity, Lola has said negative energy is meant to strengthen relationships and not to break them.
He noted that she only needs to focus on positive vibes and ignore the bad ones.
"People send me DMs asking me how I remain sane and composed when so much negativity is thrown my way and my answer to you is simple. Anger only hurts you! What people think of you is none of your business, you just need to live your truth. When your sense of satisfaction and self-worth is derived from the opinions of strangers then truly you are not in control of your happiness. This constant need for validation from randoms is so unhealthy. We are always told to stay away from negative vibes or negative people but then how will you grow your Love and Compassion if there is no one to upset you, hate you, hurt you or rub you the wrong way?," sheLola was quoted by Kiss FM, Wednesday.
After Diamond's allegations, Zari revealed that she knew Mr P even before meeting the Bongo star.
Three weeks ago, Okoye's comment on Zari's post reignited cheating claims.
The singer had called the Ugandan socialite Zari 'babe' while reacting to her comment.