Honesty is the trust builder in every relationship. 

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Generally, ladies are more honest than men but this does not mean men do not know how to build relationships. 

However, there are two instances when a man won't be honest with his woman unless she puts more pressure on him should suspicion arise. They are: 

1. When another woman is after him

Men find it hard telling their wives or fiancées about other women who may be after them. They could be admirers or their exes. Most men prefer not to reveal to their women about such issues to avoid making them jealous and feeling insecure. Women get insecure once they know that other women are after their men and so the best thing a man can do is keep this a secret. 

2. How many times he has had sex before

It is hard for a man to reveal to his new woman the number of sex partners or the number of sexual encounters he's had before. Women tend to be so keen before getting into new relationships. It is at this time that a woman will ask her new man about his past sex life and the responses she'll get are rarely honest. Men with several ex-sexual partners prefer not to let their new partners know about it as they believe they will be misjudged.