The foundation of marriage or relationship is respect. This simply means mutual respect must be paramount for every kind of relationship to work.
Love and respect make the two main pillars of relationships and this takes us to some of the signs that your partner actually respects you;
1. They listen to you
A committed partner listens actively to you and makes appropriate responses. They also don't shut you up or interrupt you when talking but instead, wait for you to finish so they can make their bit. A partner who doesn't listen to you doesn't respect you.
2. They fight fair
Fair fight means no physical violence, no being too defensive and no name-calling. When your partner doesn't respect you, they will defend themselves even when they are wrong. They will also call you names and fight you physically.
3. They are honest with you
They don't lie to you neither do they do hurtful things behind your back. Also, a respectful partner will not hide anything from you whether bad or good news. You have a right to honesty about things that affect your life.
4. They give you space and right to privacy
Your relationship should not seem like a prison where you are controlled. Your partner shouldn't be a general in your life by commanding you on what to do and what not to do. A respectful partner will let you handle yourself Independently.
5. They include you in decision-making
A respectful partner will always indulge you in decision making. They ask you of your opinions on important things they intend to do. This means they don't belittle you but instead see you as equal.