First impression is very important on how people will approach or think about you. It actually takes very few seconds for people to decide whether they will spend time with you or not.
Here's what you are doing that makes people dislike you instantly;
1. Offering a weak handshake
The firmness of your handshake can reveal so much about you. Offering the person you meet a weak handshake signifies lack of interest, pride and overly anxious. This makes people think negative about you and thus no one will be willing to have you as his/her friend.
2. Not smiling
It is important to wear a smiley and friendly face when meeting new people or when networking. A smiley face shows great interest and courage thus different people will be willing to spend their time with you compared to when your face is gloomy, this scares away people and no one will like you.
3. Asking someone questions without talking about yourself at all
Both participants in a certain conversation ought to be mutual with each one of them having enough time to express themselves. Posing continuous questions to the person you are conversing with without pointing out on yourself makes the discussion boring and the person will not wish to spend time with you whatsoever.