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A relationship may end as fast as it started, because of some behaviors which are involuntary or some people do it intentionally. 

Here are some behaviors that kill a relationship even before they start.•    Being negative. Its perfectly normal to have doubt’s about what you are about to walk into but being too negative will end the process even before it starts. Dating entails a lot, their will be sad and happy moments but don’t let them get into your head, you will be doing your self too much harm. Be positive, expect the worst and hope for the best.•    Lack of trust will kill your relationship so fast you won’t even notice. Jealousy is a part and parcel of any relationship but don’t let cloud your judgment in certain issues. Learn how to deal with those feelings and also talk to your partner about them.•    Compromising too much. Its important to know your limits when it comes to compromising for your relationship. Do not cross the line too much for anyone. Retain your values and what you believe in.Do not change it for anyone. This will also prevent you from being taken for granted