There are many reasons why people cheat in relationships.
Depending on the background and goals of your relationship, your partner will have reasons whether to cheat or not cheat in a relationship.
However, some partners will always cheat with or without any reasons.
Many relationships have been broken especially when one partner is unfaithful to the other. If a woman gets his man cheating, she can do a lot of harm to both her man and his 'mpango wa kando'.
Here are crucial things women are advised against doing when they get their men cheating.
Meet with the girl: Most women think of this as their first step. What do you want to meet your man’s 'mpango wa kando' for?
Making the lady aware that you know she is involved with your man will only worsen things. Always act the mature one and deal with your man than involve her in your relationship issues. Your man is the best person to choose to end outside relationships or not.
Condemn him in public: Almost all ladies do this once they find out their men have been cheating on them. This will cause shame to not only your man but also you, as the relationship belongs to both of you.
Making people know about your man’s affairs will only worsen the situation which will make him more 'marketable' to those who had been admiring him. Take time with him at home and talk about this issues alone.
Apologize to him: Never allow love to turn you into a foolish robot. Always know your worth in a relationship and act accordingly. If your man loves you, he is the one who is supposed to apologize when you get him cheating.
Ladies who run to apologize to their men when they find him cheating are the ones encouraging him to cheat more. If he cheats on you, let him apologize and promise not to repeat it again.
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