Life has many lessons people should learn day in day out. Being humble is good and healthy. However, there are times is totally okay to be rude in life.
If you feel oppressed for being good to people, embrace your rude side which will definitely pay off. Here are three times being rude is the only way out:
Lack of respect from co-workers
Danny Wallace, an author of “In F You Very Much” states that a rude man earns 18% more than a polite woman.
Therefore, this means that being rude at your place of work, especially to co-workers who don’t respect you will really help a lot.
More so, being rude will help avoid being used, oppressed and even gossiped at your place of work.
When your doctor doesn’t listen to you during an exam
Doctors always assume things when examining a patient, especially when they think they got what patients mean when they don’t.
According to Mary Jane Minkin, MD, an ob-gyn at Yale School of Medicine, doctors spend most of their time communicating with their computers and tools than their patients.
This makes the patient uncomfortable as there are things not even the computer can tell but the patient can.
Being rude to this doctors will make them listen to you, and finally get your problem solved.
When you’re having so-so sex
Communication during sex will help pleasure your partner.
According to Stephen Snyder, MD, a New York City-based sex therapist and author of Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Term Relationship, men usually assume what women tell them during this time.
Being assertive during sex has many benefits and this calls for rudeness when your partner isn’t listening to you.
After all, you only want to do what will make both of you feel pleasure right?