It is a dream of most parents to bring up their child with love and care from both parents. However, this might not be the case due to different beliefs and opinions from the partners who later decide to part ways.
It is important to prepare a child for the changes that will come into his/her life during and after the divorce.
Most children when not prepared can fall into stress, depression and find it hard to cope with their day to day lives.
1. Frequent reassurances
A child will always be afraid of abandonment and it is important to always reassure your child that both parents still take care and will always love them despite the circumstances. Take note of their actions and display your love and affection towards them.
2. Showing empathy and maintain good parenting
As a parent, keep a good track and try to understand your child's reaction and perspective of the change they might encounter as a result of divorce. Show them your empathy and do your best to maintain good parental care.
3. Make it clear to them that they are not the cause of what is happening
Most are the times that children think they are the cause of their parents separation. Clearly explain to them that it is not their fault and that they should not be guilty about it. Reaffirm to them that it is as a result of differences with the other parent.