Many women find themselves dating men that have not fully gotten over their exes. This may be a painful thing to go through as a woman but there are ways to overcome this. 

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If you are not ready to let go of him due to the love that you have for him, then there are simple things you can do to make him fall for you. 

Here are three ways to get him over his ex and into you.

1. Don’t bring her up

One way a woman can tell that her guy is not over his ex is by observing the way he talks about her whenever the topic comes up. For that reason, it is better for a woman to never talk about her man's ex. Avoid stalking her on social media and talking to your man about what she's been up to. If he needs to talk about her just listen but you shouldn't be the one to bring up the topic. With time, your man will start forgetting about his ex.

2. Don’t push too hard

When it comes to making your man forget about his ex, one thing to note is that you should not push too hard. Don't force him to commit to you thinking this will make him forget about his ex. Give him space and time to get over the breakup. He'll commit to you when he's ready to do so.

3. Don’t compare yourself with her

Women make a mistake whenever they tend to compare themselves with their men’s exes. To make your man get over their ex and make him think of you only, you’ll need to be yourself. Stop comparing yourself to his ex or trying to be like her.