It is a dream of most of us to settle down and have children. We are in a completely different time compared to the past where mothers used to stay at home and look after the children.
Nowadays parents are becoming so busy with careers and different tasks leaving their children under the hands of maids or daycares. Spending enough time with your children is quite important for bonding and parental love.
Before deciding to have a baby, ask yourself these questions;
1. Is your relationship healthy?
Do not cheat yourself that a baby will help you solve relationship issues with your partner. Find out the strength of your bonding and the love you have for each other before settling for a child.
2. What's your financial status?
Raising a baby is not an easy task. It comes in with a lot of sacrifices. Before having a baby, ask yourself whether you are able to comfortably meet the needs of the baby as well as your own needs.
3. Are you ready for parenthood or it is pressure?
Sometimes pressure from friends or relatives could push one to have a baby. It is important to follow your own decision and do not give in to the pressure.
4. Do you have a good support system?
It makes a huge difference to have people around you who you can ask for help or guidance once the baby comes. These can be your friends, own parents, parents or even in-laws.