The number (30) is a source of stress to many ladies in the country. Because when you have hit your 30's, there is an expectation that you will find the guy, get married and have babies. This happens even when you are not ready for it, not ready to pause your career or give up a carefree and single life.

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Attractive single women who are at the height of their careers, they are smart, wealthy, and single but are struggling to find a man that meets their criteria. Is it because they are too choosy?  Sometimes you attract the wrong type of guys? Whichever the case.

The following are dating mistakes that keep women from finding soulmate:

1. Chasing men away by showing the wrong intentions

Do not just think men are afraid of commitments and responsibilities, most men are not afraid of commitment. They are afraid of committing to the wrong person of your kind, who is looking for a guy to father her children. Men commit to a woman with the right mindset that makes them (men) feel safe. Stop your intentions and focus on true love.

2. Making any guy your "Mr. Right"

Unlike men who can date a woman for years before turning it into a relationship, women tend to fall into relationship mode at the very same time, especially when she is approaching her 30's. Take everything slowly.

3. You attract men with the same kind of energy

If you are that woman who allows your thoughts to create your reality then you will find hard to land your Mr. Right. That am 29, if this year ends without any man in my life then I will have to go for any options. This will only earn you any man, not your soulmate

4. Ignoring your emotional needs

Get your minds off this ‘settling down’ thing, or else you will end up neglecting what your heart needs, Which results in marrying for wrong reasons, marrying somebody not your soulmate.