In a relationship couples engage on so many topics, ranging from developments (current and future), to pet topics like what to put on on a given day.
Some topics should not be introduced to any woman when the guy's pocket is not well balanced. These are the questions you should avoid asking her, especially on phone, when you are broke:
What for lunch?
A man asking the lady about what she is having as her lunch. Most ladies will reply to this by telling the man to buy them lunch. She will tell you how she got nothing for lunch, if you are broke and unable to buy her lunch, avoid this question. Just wish her a nice lunch without asking what she is having
Can you send me your photos?
Sometimes men just want to see her new photos. It turns tricky if her reply will be 'I got so may new photos, but I don't have data bundles, I also got Sh500 Okoa Jahazi from my network provider.' this text for a broke guy is so heartbreaking. One will hate why he requested the photos
Can you come over today?
Men introduce this topic to find out if their lover do think of visiting them. Sometimes the topic is introduced when the guy is not even ready to host her, unfortunately she asks for fare so that she comes over. It will be so messy and noisy to convince her to come other times.
Given a chance, what can you ask from me?
Do not introduce this topic thinking she won't ask for material things. What if she asks for money and you are broke?