Girls, have you ever been in a position where men are using you to get to your friends or have you seen such a scenario? Well there is a reason for everything happening under the sun. These could be the reasons;
You are ‘anti-social’: When your friends are in groups, they talk well with people of the opposite sex, they are friendly to them and they express happiness when they meet other people. Probably on your side, big groups do not excite you so you tend to avoid them as a result, you will keep on giving your friends’ numbers to cute guys until they get married.
You have an attitude: Having an attitude, means that you don’t take other people as such important. You only think about yourself and keep on feeding your ego with unachievable fantasies such as having a rich husband with a big car. It is good to dream but use what you have in your hands to get to where you want to. Do you remember the story of Moses and the rod?
You are too choosy: You are in a group with your friends but you have vowed to never compromise on having a “dark, tall and handsome man”. While your friends are enjoying a good time with other people because they are only after a good company, you are busy relying on very irrelevant things.
You are too judgmental: Another thing that can make people distance themselves from you is that you tend to profile them according to their characters, their opinions or anything that they display before you. As such they will avoid you like plague.