In most cases, when you break up with your lover, it is advisable to swallow the bitter pill and move on. However, there are those exceptional circumstances when you are convinced that he/she is the one meant for you and hence you decide to fight to have him/her back. Here is a masterpiece to help you make your ex crawl back into your arms:
1.Cut your communication completely
No matter how much you miss your ex, resist the temptation to call, text, visit, send an apology card, flowers or a friend to mediate. Contacting them shows you are desperate and that will push him/her away farther.
2. Find out the cause of the breakup and rectify it
Most lovers walk away for genuine reasons that you need to fix for you to stand a chance to win them back. Make sure you thoroughly work on yourself to look sexy and better. Go easy on it though, you should not start to put on too much make up, buy expensive clothes, hit the gym till you break your chest or burn your skin with lightening products.
3. Make new friends and accept to go out on dates
Be free to mingle with other people. Get new hobbies and participate in more exciting activities that will make you happier. Go for dates and hang out with people of opposite sex. In fact, there is no other better reason that will bring your ex faster than seeing you hanging out with someone prettier.
4. Ignore them when they first contact you
Your ex may decide to check in once in a while just to see how desperate you have become since the break-up. At first, ignore their calls and texts. If you happen to reply or pick the calls, show little concern with phrases like " am busy, call back later", " sorry am unavailable at that moment".