Talking too much during foreplay (Photo/essence.com)
Intimacy is not only good but also a healthy thing between partners. Good intimacy depends on the physical and mental connection the two partners have for each other.
Don’t make these mistakes before the main event, as the kind of foreplay you have will determine the type of sex you will have.
In foreplay, you will learn many things about your partner and therefore it is very important.
Here are five common mistakes you might make during foreplay:
Focusing on just one spot
Too much of something is poisonous right? That’s what we all learn in our Primary school education. This saying is applicable in foreplay where men tend to stick with what works best for women focusing on it for long. This becomes boring doing the same thing repeatedly at the same spot.
Talking too much
Sometimes people disagree in the middle of a conversation and all they were doing falls down. Don’t let too much talking kill your sessions. Keep your talking simple and regulated to only what she or he wants you tell them. Avoid conversations far-fetched at this time, as this time is much different and special for the two of you.
Going too fast or too hard
A great foreplay is that which is gentle, step by step and teasing. However, many people rush things killing the mood. Women take a little while to get aroused, and therefore, it is advisable that one should take 15-20 minutes warming her up. Going fast and hard will make her think you don’t care about her feelings and maybe don’t love her. Too much pressure on her sensitive areas is another mistake you may be making. Take it slow and gentle to sense her reactions of what she likes and doesn’t like.
Not reading her
Women are different when it comes to all intimacy activities. Some love direct sex while other love foreplay and they will be satisfied even without sex if well done. Take time to learn your woman and only do the things she guides you to do by her reactions. She will feel comfortable and free with you.