Lack of clue about why you are single is the most frustrating issues faced by many single people in spite of taking their time to search for the right partner. When you fail to get the right partner for long period of time, it is common to fixate on what is wrong or why love is not developing. Fortunately, you can assess yourself and determine what is holding you back and take action on the possible barriers to getting the right partner. Here are things to consider:First of all, do not act desperately when looking for a lover because desperation is likely to repel your potential partners. You should define the difference between needing and finding a marriage partner. Empower yourself and be confident when approaching him/her. Avoid rushing as it will mess everything.Do not cling to your past especially if you had that bad lack of meeting partners who may have divorced or those who never treat you well may take time before they heal. If your past affects your present, it will still impact on your ability to love a new partner. Do not be faded but take the past as lesson you have learned to help you make the right choice.There are cases where you might have overstayed in a relationship with a wrong partner and encountered an inevitable breakup. This may be a technique you used to protect yourself from being lonely without knowing. It is your responsibility to be bold and leave such relationships so that you can free up yourself and open up to a greater partner than having unhealthy relationships.Lastly, do not compare yourself to other people that you become disengaged in your own life. What I mean is be mindful of how you spend your time and energy. Avoid feeling jealous of your friends in a relationship will worsen your single life. Focus on your inner self and define what you need.

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