Sad black couple in bed [Photo/stargist.com]
Having sex with a completely new person can be extremely exciting or really intimidating especially when it rings into your mind that you may fail to do it as expected or things may really not end up good. And now here is the grooming that you require before engaging in 'new sex'.
Freshen up
When planning for sex you obviously know you will be all over somebody to make the encounter greater. Freshening up here means you ensure basic hygiene is evident to you so that no one is 'chocked' by unhealthy odor. Sex is meant to be enjoyed.
Watch your undies
Everybody wants to appear great and attractive for a sexual encounter. This begins with your undies. Put on one that makes you feel comfortable and confident that your partner will love it. Make him or her come for you. Let it be clean and sexy.
Be prepared
Be physically and mentally prepared for the action as a failure to do this may make things turn different when the actual time comes. You should also be ready with everything it takes for the encounter if condoms were an agreement then they must be available. You should also be ready for any outcome of sex from pregnancy to disease related to the act.
Relax
Sex is rarely enjoyed with pressure, due to this, you need to relax and let things flow themselves. Sex is a way to grow and learn about yourself and what you like and don’t like. Putting too much pressure the situation is only going to mess up the entire time and you will surely lose the sexual urge that had been lit in you.