As we all know, love is a term everyone needs to hear at least, once in a while.
Before you tell someone you love them, however, there are things you should consider first and I have analysed some of them.
1. Thank you
Showing gratitude even for the simplest things is a big deal no matter how long or short you have been with someone. When someone goes out of their way to make sure you are fine no matter how small the deal, it matters. You will realise that the moment they stop doing stuff for you, it’s simply because you were not grateful.
2. Do you need anything?
It cannot always be one person doing things for you but you do not care to do anything for them. Just because someone does not come and ask, maybe they want you to come forward and ask because it will have more meaning that way. Less of ‘me’ attitude also means you going out of your way to be there for someone else without benefiting from it.
3. I like spending time with you
You cannot love someone if every time you spend time with them, you want to be somewhere else. You are always checking the time, you are thinking of someone else and you are thinking of your work.
If you like spending time with someone, let them know. People like hearing these things because it makes them more confident and comfortable around you.
4. That was very thoughtful of you
Don’t take things and people for granted. Others never even get a mere date, present or a small gift for a birthday. If someone never forgets and make a proper effort to remember things that matter to you; appreciate it.
If you master these, you should have an easy love life so go ahead and try them!