Happy Kenyan couple. Give your woman the power to make family decisions.Photo: www.storymojaafrica.wordpress.com
Women are the engine of life hence they must be cherished. Without a woman, there is no life. Apart from being springs of life, they are special caretakers of their product from infancy to old age. What annoys me is how women have been confined to the private sphere of society.
You have to do the following to boost their self-esteem especially your wife.
Educated her if she lacks proper schooling
It has been practically proven that educating a woman is educating society thus educating your wife is educating your descendants. An educated woman will be financially and socially stable ceteris paribus. Her esteem will be elevated if you school her in case she lacked the relevant education.
Love her in public
Loving someone in public does not mean being intimate in public areas. Going to church, shopping or taking your daughter to school together will increase your bonding with the woman you assume to understand. Drop her off at her workplace if she does not own an automobile and promise to pick her in the evening even in the presence of her friends. If you attend a function, introduce her to your friends.
Give her the power to make family decisions
The power to make decisions should not be given a masculine tag. Allow your woman to contribute to decision making and at times it is romantic to act as she deems fit without questioning. Such a behavior will help you raise great sons and daughters.
Be monogamous in mind and deeds
Women feel bad if you dog. They will start looking for what they lack that has forced you to seek for it beyond matrimonial walls. Faults will always be there thus the only solution is correcting your woman and if she values her marriage, she will change. Please make sure that monogamy starts in your mind.
These are some of the few things that will unearth a wife you never knew. She will be a great mother to your little angels whether to you are alive or dead.