The status of your relationship has a lot to do with what you and your partner talk about. Daily conversations can either make you fall more in love or drift away. Which one would you choose? Of course you'd choose to fall in love over and over again. 

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Here are five things happy couples about.

1. Daily individual lives

Happy couples talk about each other's daily events and activities. Asking your partner about their day doesn't hurt. It instead helps both of you understand each other's lives better. Couples who ignore such conversations end up drifting away from each other. 

2. Life goals and focus

Talking about each other's goals establishes grounds for support. There's nothing as sweet as having a partner who supports you in your endeavours. This only starts when you share your ideas, goals and focus with your spouse. Such conversations create a stronger bond between couples.

3. Fears and insecurities

As a couple, you need to share what worries you and the things that make you feel insecure in the relationship. Talk about things your partner does that make you too vulnerable. With this you get to know how to handle each other in the long run.

4. Family ties

Once you get married to someone, you become part of their family and they become part of your family as well. This makes learning their family ties an obligation to you. With this, you get to learn what family means to them as you plan for a future together. 

5. Individual and mutual problems

Happy couples talk about problems in their daily lives. If you have a problem worrying you, let your partner know about it. Perhaps they might help you solve it. Again, happy couples sit down and solve relationship problems together. They don't hold grudges against each other but strive to find lasting solutions to their problems.