Before marriage, you had a nice time with your wife such that no day passed without the two of you enjoying intimate moments.
However, now you have been married for a few years and you got kids and she seems to be so distant.
Here are three reasons that could explain this.
1. She lost her connection to you
Women are complicated and this gives us the first reason to always consider how we coexist with them. The reason your wife doesn't want to get intimate with you could be because she is no longer connected to you. She is lost in thoughts and perhaps suffering from what is called emotional torture. Your wife needs to be seen, heard and known.
Don't be the kind of husband who only seeks her warmth when you need it. Keep in touch with her; give her time and show her that she matters to you anytime, anywhere.
2. She is dealing with her own inner stresses
She could be having things ringing in her mind from past relationships especially concerning intimacy, or some sort of abuse in the past. Additionally, she could be feeling insecure about her body.
A woman's body matters a lot to her because most of them believe that it is what people use to judge them. She could be feeling she is not beautiful enough to attract you despite how much you try to express your attraction towards her.
3. She's utterly exhausted
Daily exhaustion could make your wife forget that she needs to be getting intimate with you. Work, taking care of children, house chores all could drain her energy.
As a man, you can remedy this by offering a helping hand whenever you can. Men often think they work more than their wives but in some cases, it tends to be the opposite.