Since Kenyans started embracing blow jobs, revealed by many discussions on social media, including 'Lamba lolo' that was trending in the past few weeks, it makes it necessary for more information about it to be made available.

Is there a story unfolding in your community? Let Hivisasa know

 In Europeans countries, seminars are always organized so that women and men can share ideas on this crucial adult topic.

Blow job givers make mistakes which at the end of the day, chases the partners away. It is an advantage to know these major mistakes so that avoiding them becomes easier. These are:

1. Not getting it wet enough

Do not assume that your mouth is wet enough to make his penis wet during the blow job, your saliva alone cannot perfectly wet it, use some good lube for the same. By doing so you will be in a position to make him want more of it.

2. Squeezing it too hard

This will only turn his pleasure into pain. You should know that the penis is just but a group of soft muscles, squeezing them harder results to stress on the muscles. He will only hate it.

3. Acting like it is just but a favor for him 

If you do not like it, it means you stop doing it, instead of making him feel like it is only but a favor, that you are giving him a blow job. He will not request for more of it. 

4. Ignoring the balls

The blow job should not stop at his penis, reach out to his balls. This is where a seaming-like-thing starts developing up in his minds.

5. Not using your tongue and lips effectively 

A blow job is not just going up and down over his penis like a vacuum, employ some few tips by using your tongue, your lips and even your teeth. Always maintain a regular rhythm of doing this.