A couple on a picnic date. [photo/ bellanaija.com]
A happy long-lasting relationship requires lots of hard work and patience.
Avoid the following mistakes to have a happy relationship.
Comparing your relationship to others
They say looks can be deceiving thus you should never use other people’s relationships as a measuring stick for your own. People are different and have different relationship goals. Concentrate on being happy and avoid competing with other couples.
Taking your partner for granted
It is important to show your partner that you love and care about them on a daily basis. Appreciate them always, acknowledging even the smallest gestures with a form of gratitude. This will not only make you happy individuals but will also strengthen your relationship.
Threatening to break up
Relationships are never perfect. We build them daily. Threatening to break up during heated arguments will only do harm to your relationship. These words will break the trust you two share and eventually lead to a break-up. Never ever threaten to break up unless you are sure it is what you want to do.
Forgetting to carve out time for play
Our jobs usually take up most of our time, leaving us with very little free time. It is however important to always remember to spare some time from your busy schedule to engage in fun activities with your spouse.
Allowing laziness to overstay its welcome
Relationships always begin on a high momentum, with couples being lovey-dovey with each other. However, this changes as time goes by. If you allow laziness to eat up the romance in your relationship, be sure your relationship will sink. Spice up your relationship with random simple gestures such as hugs, kisses or even holding hands in public.