How many years have you been dating your man? Is your relationship heading to the next level? Knowing each other’s desires preferences and sexual parts are the key to starting things off on the right foot. Here are five topics you and your partner must discuss.
Fantasies, fetishes, and desires
Fantasies and fetishes should be discussed by the couples to laugh and listen up. There are couples who watch porn. Men like surprises while having sex. Bondage queen will secretly and surprisingly spring the furry fetish on her partner applying the oils and lotions making the sex sweet and memorable. Never underestimate your lover’s bedroom interests.
Sexual history and future
Knowing your partner's sexual history is always important thus reducing cases of sexually transmitted diseases. Sexual health is always your responsibility. Discussing family planning with your partner is important thus helping in dealing with the unplanned pregnancy. Starting fresh together is beneficial whereby both of you get tested together. This is great feeling ever.
Sexual exclusivity
The straight-forward conversation about being sexually exclusive or not reduces confusion. Committed relationships definition are not always same. As a woman, you should not assume exclusivity in a relationship, be open and ask your partner if they are married or dating someone else.
How many times do you want sex?
Sometimes one partner will want sex often and the other one is reluctant, he or she wants it but not more often. Therefore the best thing is to discuss or share sex schedules of which is the key to a successful sex motivating the partners to rewind. It is good to know your sexual calendar.
Sexual Secrets
A lot of men and women experience sexual trauma differently. A healthy sexual expression in the bedroom is achieved by both partners being honest about what happened to them whether good, bad or ugly. This is approached by holding the conversation in a private place. The discussion is helpful in acknowledging the discomfort in any serious conversation.