Relationships are never easy to start and maintain. More so, there is no manual for this subject thus people have always been living on try and error method in their relationships. There are many things people do in the new relationships that kill them within no time. Knowing what to do in a new relationship can be an advantage in maintaining the relationship. Here are five things you should never do in a new relationship:
Looking too good
Trying to be perfect for someone to love you is a great mistake. The only way to tell if someone loves you is by being the real you. If someone will love you for who you are, that’s a good thing to start building on the relationship. You should always save appearing too good after this person really loves you for who you are.
Lying about who you are
Women lead in doing this mistake. Telling little white lies which are irrelevant for your future will only cost your relationship. If you have to lie, then lie about something big your partner will never find out.
Opening up too quickly
Trust is earned not given. Don’t think that opening up to this guy will earn you his trust. You should hold on to things that seem dear to you until you can really trust this man to be in love with you.
Making comparisons
There is no way you will win comparing yourself or your partner to other people. People are always different and thus comparing them will only make you feel like you don’t have the right person for yourself.
Trying hard to be compatible
It doesn’t mean that when you are not compatible you have to call it quit. You can train each other for as long as it will take until you become compatible. However, hiding out things that make you uncomfortable will only make the relationship complicated and hard for you which will not last for long.