There is never a second time to create the first impression. When a girl accepts to go on a date with you, ensure you make good use of the opportunity and be careful not to mess up. The slightest mistake can make you lose her for good and you should thus be careful especially with the kind of questions you ask.
Some questions are very personal and others still can be intimidating. Concentrate on establishing a rapport rather than asking questions that will ruin the date.
Never ask a girl these questions on your first date if you really want to win her;
So, why did you break up with your ex?
Remember that this is just the first date and you hardly know each other. You can only ask such a question if you are already in a relationship and you know each other so well. Asking to know why she parted ways with her ex is quite a personal questions and can spoil her mood. Focus on asking relevant questions related to the date but do not dig into her past.
What is your tribe?
This is such an awkward question to ask her on a first date. Unfortunately, some Kenyans always insist on knowing your ethnic group as if it really matters. This question will create a million questions in her mind and she will start questioning why her tribe really matters to you. It also sends the impression that you are a tribalist.
When did you last have sex?
Seriously? This is a very intimate question and it shows how less you care or respect other people's privacy. Why would you even want to know when she had sex or even how many men she has slept with? Be very keen not to offend her with such questions since once you ruin the date, she may never want to see you ever again.
How much do you earn?
Again this is a personal question. You may ask what they do to earn a living but asking about their salary is another thing altogether. Whatever she earns should be none of your business at this stage and you can spare such questions for another time in future after both of you start courting and you know each other so well.
Do you like me?
Men ask all sorts of weird questions that lead to awkward moments and you are left wondering if they really need an answer. If she cares, she will not tell you how much she dislikes you even if she already feels like you are such a nuisance. Instead, try reading her behaviour and you will know whether she likes you or not.